When seeking out mediation, one or both parties will need to contact the mediator to determine if mediation is an appropriate avenue to resolve identified issues. If both parties agree that mediation is appropriate and if the mediator agrees that it is appropriate, individual one-hour appointments will be set with each party to discuss their individualized interests and positions on the identified issues. Typically for parenting agreements to be reached, an average of 3-6 two hour sessions are needed to reach an agreement, but this is heavily dependent upon how adversarial the parties are. There are often instances where an agreement to parent can be met within the first two-hour session. For full divorce mediation, an average of 4-8 sessions two-hour sessions are necessary to reach an agreement about any children involved, as well as the equitable division of assets and liabilities (property, monies, debt, etc…).
How to go about Mediation?
Mediation is an efficient, cost effective means to resolve disputes amicably. The method in which conflicts are processed and resolved will have a large influence on an individual’s and family’s adjustment to separation and/or divorce. Mediators do not make decisions for you, in mediation, YOU are in charge of making your own decisions. This promotes the most positive outcome for all involved. A mediator can be selected by the parties involved or appointed by the court. A mediator is a neutral third party who assists couples or families in resolving their disputes. Their role is to help individuals clearly define issues, keep lines of communication open and promote discussion and resolution. Mediation aims to facilitate communication and develop mutually acceptable and agreed upon decisions. Mediation can save money and time as opposed to full litigation.